A FATHER'S ADVICE TO HIS SON ABOUT $£X

 A 21st Century Father and Son Conversation



Son: Dad, I want to start having s.e.x
Dad: Get a wife.

Son: I don't have a wife
Dad: Get a partner you can marry.

Son: Am not ready, I need about 3,4,5 years for that.
Dad: Well son you have to finish your education, get a work, have a life to live first. It will take you some 3,4,5 years.

Son: I can't wait that long.
Dad: Ask God for strength to endure.

Son: But Dad I have waited 10 years since I was 10.
Dad: Then you can wait for 5 more.

Son: Why do I have to go through all these.
Dad: Because just one mistaken s.e.x can ruin your whole life.

Son: Who made the rules of s.e.x?
Dad: God did, nature approved it, society accepted it, health supports it and wealth keeps it as a secret.

Son: Can't I just have s.e.x with anybody whiles I wait?
Dad: No, son you will end up with bigger problems like:

1. Teenage pregnancy
2. Abortion
3. Single parent
4. Street children
5. Mistaken marriage
6. Unwanted pregnancy
7. S.T.D's
8. Soul ties
9. Unfaithfulness
10. Distractions
11. Weak energy
12. Divorce
13. Disrespect
14. Loss of money
15. Temporal riches

Son: But I can use some protection like cond.o.ms.
Dad: Yes son, but sometimes things happens so fast and s.e.x takes you by surprise. Other times too the cond.o.ms get busted in the act.

Son: So what do I get if I save s.e.x for marriage?
Dad: You will have:

1. Good Marriage
2. Good family
3. Responsible Children
4. Happy Home
5. Peace of mind
6. Personal joy
7. Mutual respect
8. Self Respect
9. Faithfulness
10. Achievements
11. Fulfillment

Son: Why all these patience?
Dad: Patience pains, but it pays. 
Patience will make you Prince. Patience is a virtue with great value.


Son: Dad give a person who followed this advice.
Dad: Bill Gates, he saved s.e.x for marriage and saved himself for success and achievement, he married at age 37. He always asked girls about their Math score on their SAT. He did not lure girls to s.e.x when he was growing up. Look at him today, he continues to have a great marriage life and great wealth because of the price he paid and the sacrifice he made.

Son: What about those who did not use s.e.x right, give me examples.
Dad: Son look at the celebrities who sing about s.e.x, dance s.e.x, talk s.e.x, have s.e.x, dress s.e.x, smoke s.e.x, misuse s.e.x and abuse s.e.x. Presidents, politicians, footballers, athletes, musicians, movie stars and public figures. Look at what s.e.x misuse did to them:
Ruined Marriages
s.e.x scandals
Riches to rags
Public Disgrace
Missing higher greatness
Lost fortunes
Lost inheritance
Lost wealth



Son: What about if am already trapped in one.
Dad: Good it means whatever am saying you would know the reality of its truth. So find a way to get out and run away from the trap. Just try to get out.

Son: What's your final advice Dad?
Dad: 1. Don't let one erection control your direction for a misdirection in life.
        2. Never let a temporary emotion navigate your motion for life.

Son: Thank you Dad
Dad: Thank you too son.

Author:         Solomon Botchway (Motivational Speaker)
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