DEPRESSION AND DESPERATION IN LOVE (LIFE COACHING)

Love is a part of life we all wish to enjoy and have for life. So we begin the search for love on good note, keeping ourselves for the right person to come share love with us like we have imagined.

Unfortunately Life is a trickster and plays hard to get. Imagined if we all got want we just wanted, what a wonderful world that would be. Life is so ironic that what we truly want it does not give us and what we don't want it rather gives us.

Sometimes we fall in love whole heartedly, only to realize we have just been used to satisfy someone's sex desires or someone's monetary problems. Our hearts get broken and we now start to open our eyes and try to play smart and experienced.

We no longer believe in love and we see it as a game and we forget the name. We go in to revenge or console ourselves. We go in to hurt others or to be hurt one more time.

Then the two most dangerous weapons of emotional weakness takes over called: DEPRESSION and DESPERATION.

When they come in you choose anything, you no longer care whether it is good or bad. Whether it is wrong or right. Whether it is moral or immoral.

When you become depressed as a result of a hurt you become careless and carefree all the things you vowed not to do becomes the very things you make up your mind to do such as:

*looking for sex
*drinking alcohol
*drug abuse
*online flirting and dating
*going to night clubs
*going out to party hard
*sleeping around for pleasure
*physical abuse
* verbal abuse

You do this all because you are heart broken and depressed and nobody seems to understand what you are truly going through and these mediums becomes the way you think you can ease the pain or overcome the hurt.

Secondly when you think everyone is falling in love and has a partner you become desperate and it makes you feel so lonely. So you choose just anything or decide to take anything that comes your way. When you get into such a relationship this is what happens:

*you are so emotional
*you are so sensitive
*you are so possessive because you suffered to get and waited for so long this relationship.
*you become a detective and a monitoring police checking through someone's phone and messages.
*you become suspicious and always accusing people because you are so DESPERATE.

The Solution to this two emotional weakness is
*Love and Fear God no matter what man does to you to lead you astray.
* Love yourself first and best because you are wonderfully and fearfully made.
*Forgive them don't let them change you to a bad person, that's not who you truly are.
*Move on the best is ahead, good things happens to those who keep going whiles they wait for its arrival.

By: SoloHitz Mic (Author)
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